My Ex-Partner Meditates with Sahaj Marg (cont'd 2009 - 2012)

Taken and translated from an article titled: "Ma Compagne Médite (suite)", on Elodie's blog in Europe called: Pour Que Vive Le Sahaj Marg.


July 14, 2012

My Partner (companion) Meditates (With Sahaj Marg) Cont'd (2009-2012)

On August 25, 2009, Anonymous told us his story, a relationship of 10 years, marred by the intrusion of Chari and along with him, Sahaj Marg and SRCM. A companion whose parents are preceptors, and who begins to meditate five years after they met. At first, it does not appear to disturb the couple, but five years later:

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"I feel the wind change and we are now 3 in our home, along with Chariji. Finally, this condition was firmly put to me. Long depressed, I think I now see clearly. Sahaj Marg is deeply against couples where one is not active or even a sympathizer. Initially, you are accepted because you have a potential to become abhyasis. Then the day you are certain of not sharing anything with this movement, things get complicated (...) ".

His full testimony can be read on "My partner is an abhyasi".

July 14, 2012,


Anonymous returns to the point:


Hello to you,

I am the famous "anonymous" and I return to read your comments, soon to be 3 years after the fact. Thank you sincerely for your encouragement.


Shortly after the last message, I had the right to a bluff stroke, or rather an 'All In' type of poker play on her part. In summary, I could either accept a Sahaj Marg future for our children, or it was ended. On the other hand I satisfied her in all other aspects (How ironic). This lack of respect for my values ​​and these earlier commitments thus lead to our immediate and brutal seperation.


When I brought her to her new home made of abhyasis, I found seven photos of Chari in the entrance hall ... of course I dare not mention the cult of personality!


When a few months later I met a new person (partner?) , my ex-girlfriend was trying to come back. But despite my refusal of a year earlier of the condition of Sahaj Marg, the previous year and the later years elapsed during which she claimed to have suffered from my absence, I realized she still had not even brushed upon the idea of ​​leaving the movement.


Even her parents, preceptors, attempted to persuade me, arguing that a "seer (mystic? clarevoyant?)" saw us together. Worse, even Chari apparently had said to my ex that I was the man of her life.


I told her then that if Chari was directing her towards me and that I was telling her not to continue with SRCM, then maybe that this was the right way ... again, no sign of understanding.


In short, I'm happy now even though of course I'm sad for her. I have a companion with whom I think we are a duo, not a trio (as with the SRCM), doomed to failure and sadness.


Good luck to all of you in your battles.

Anonymous


See his first testimonial in 2009 at: "My partner is an Abhyasi".
http://4d-don.blogspot.ca/2009/08/my-partner-is-abhyasi-testimonial.html

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